Friday 4 December 2009

Online Dating Services ? Is This the Way to the Future ?

Hi there,

Back in the old days, the way to bring two people together was through a hook up. Your friend arranges a blind date between you and her friend, or her boyfriends friend. Now we all know how tragic a blind date can be sometimes. (Oh yes we do)! That is why we seek help from professional matchmakers.

These companies provide what we call online dating services.

What are the different kinds of dating services available?

The most common one is called online dating service. This works by filling out a registration form, creating a public profile, and browsing through the database for possible dates, usually for free. These may also involve exchanges of messages or emails, which you usually have to pay for and a few days or weeks you might get a reply. While online dating may be fun, it is still wise to exercise caution in giving out personal data to other people. Especially your address and phone number. They may seem trustworthy, but we can only hope that we know them well enough for them not to use this information for bad reasons.

Another kind of dating service is through phone.

Since the mobile phone has become widely available, the phone dating service has dramatically grown over the past years. It is faster, more convenient, and relatively cheaper. While websites which provide internet dating services can charge high fees, phone dating services are often free. What you would have to pay for is the standard rate per text message that you send. Your phone number will also be cloaked for security. Because your cell phone is obviously smaller than a computer or laptop, it is easier to access your profile and check messages from prospective dates.

Another kind of dating service is through video.

These services are the ones that are often advertised on TV. Heres how it works. You go to the office of the video dating services company and make a personal ad. How you project yourself would have to depend on your preference. Your video shall then be viewed by other clients, and if interested, would then contact you through the phone company or service provider.

There is also what is called as speed dating Service.

Here, a group of men and women are made to interact with each one for a fixed short time. Usually in a Public house or Club. After meeting everyone, each of them shall fill out a form to indicate which ones did they connect with the most. If the answer is the same for any two people, then they are made to meet again, perhaps to talk or plan for a real date.

What are the sources of dating services? You may find these dating services companies in the yellow pages, through their ads on TV, or online. Of all the sources, it is the internet that is most important. This is because of the wide scope that it encompasses. But precisely because it is wide in scope that makes it more attractive to scam artists. Beware of people who ask for money, especially from abroad.

The bottom line is, dating services will continue to change the dating scene radically. New things are being introduced to make things more enjoyable and attractive. In the past, while most people shun the idea of asking for professional help with regard to dating, the same is not true at present. This is one popular area of conversation. Because things are moving rather fast, we need to keep up with the times. That is why dating services and professional match making companies continue to multiply as the days pass.

So what are you waiting for? Find the dating service that would best suit you, and have fun!


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