Saturday 6 June 2009

How Safe are you with Free Online Dating Services?


Online dating services have now become the new way of dating.

Instead of going out in a blind date with someone whom you barely know, more single men and women choose online dating services instead.

The most common kind is called free online dating services. There isn't many of them about as the service providers want just the serious members who are looking for a relationship or just fun and are willing to pay for this service.

Whereas if sites are free, then anyone who isn't serious will browse the site. Because the services are free, the common question that a prospective online dater would ask is, are these sites secured?

Online dating services are fast becoming an important classification of internet websites. But just as things have changed and evolved, scammers and con artists have also been "modernized."

In these modern times, almost everything can be accessed by anyone. With news on internet hacking and copying, you can't help but feel unsafe. More so if you need to reveal some personal information.

This explains why, despite the booming industry of online dating services, there are still quite a number of people who are hesitant of joining.

Internet sites which provide dating services have now been made more secure by the service providers themselves. Before deciding on joining a particular dating service provider, see if they have privacy policies.

It is important that any details that you give be kept confidential at all times. Sites which ask for several verifications before giving access to information are generally safer than those who dont.

One good thing about this kind of dating service is you dont need to disclose any credit card number. Because you dont need to pay for anything, there is therefore no need to disclose the same.

If someone pretends to be from the company, then contacts you and asks for such information, dont tell anything. Chances are, they are scam artists out to get your money.

Because these sites are for free, there are more members than in paid sites. This being so, members are most likely to belong to different backgrounds and financial status. That is why you should be more cautious in choosing the people that you respond to. Check their profiles well. If you see anything suspicious or somewhat deceitful in their profiles, you can then avoid communicating with the person. Some sites even allow the blocking of messages from other people.

The downside of free sites like this is the presence of spam emails and unsolicited offers. Never respond to such emails and erase them as soon as possible.

Once you're in, take time to get to know the person before divulging particular details. Take things slow and give yourself some time. Only when you've developed a closer, more intimate relationship can you give details on your real name, workplace, contact numbers, and others.
Also try and remember, until you get to know the other person better, they will be receiving plenty of messages from other members.

In meeting the person for the first time, choose a public place. Do not agree on meeting somewhere private like his place or a friends house. Tell a friend of your whereabouts, who you'll meet, where and when. Tell them you'll call them when you get home.

If you want to try online dating services, then free online dating services are the way to start. This way, you are able to test the waters without having to spend much. As to the question posted in the title, these sites are relatively safe. Just remember to take the necessary precautionary measures of online dating.

The important thing to remember is you have a hand in securing your own safety.

1 comment:

Unknown said...

Patience and safety is the key to success in online dating. Personally I always trust on Chemistry.com.